The Strange Command that you Never Hear Preached — Heb 10:24-25 (pt.19)

  • There’s a verse in Hebrews that scholars agree is strangely worded, and a little scary if translated correctly.
  • They don’t talk about what it might mean to follow this command in practice.
  • Yet actually it is a key to our deep growth.

 

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  • In part of the central flow of argument in Hebrews, there is a verse that is strange
  • All the major commentaries on the verse agree that it is strange but none of them risk saying what it might mean in practice
  • All of the translations tone it down.
  • Today I want us to look at it explore what it is asking us to do, even if it is a bit scary.

1. The strange command in Hebrews 10

  • The writer has just concluded the main point of the book: We have a new relationship with God through the New Covenant established by Jesus.
  • He summarizes our response before unpacking it in more detail in the 3 final chapters.

Hebrews 10

  1. Therefore, brothers and sisters,
    since we have authorization for free access to enter the sanctuary by the blood of Jesus, 20by the fresh and living way that he opened up for us, through the curtain—that is through his flesh,
  2. and since we have a great priest over the house of God,
  • Christian triad of faith (v.22), hope (v.23), and love (v.24).

Hebrews 10 cont’d

  1. let us draw near with a sincere heart in the assurance that faith brings,
    • because we have had our hearts sprinkled clean from a burdened conscience and our bodies washed in pure water.
  2. And let us hold unwaveringly to the hope that we confess,
    • for the one who made the promise is trustworthy.
  3. And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,
    • 25not abandoning our own meetings, as is the habit of some, but encouraging each other, and even more so because you see the Day drawing near.
  • our verse is v.24 and that is is common translation, but very toned down from the original.
    All the best experts on the Greek are in agreement that this would be a better translation

Hebrews 10

  • “consider how to stir up one another”
  1. And let us very carefully observe one another in order to sharply spur them towards love and good works
  • Two words the normal translation tones down:
    consider → intently watch, carefully observing
    “fix your eyes upon Jesus” Hebrews 3:1 —exactly the same word
  • stir up → sharply spur them Usually used of giving someone a very sharp poke
    • e.g. O.T. someone had their eyes put out with this
    • It is used of the fight between Paul and Barnabas over Mark
  • What on earth does that mean in practice?

Provoking to Love

  1. The strange command in Hebrews 10
  2. The deep lies we carry
  3. Gently poking out the lies

2. The deep lies we carry

Goal

  • All of us carry self-deceptions about our own thinking and behaviour—particularly in relationships.
  • To be free and grow we need others (or God) to gently but effectively point them out.
  • Here is an example:
  • After King David’s adultery and murder, it seems he was very self deceived.
    • It seems he lived in the delusion that he had not sinned
    • Nathan, in love, brought a sharp jab! Note that God gave him great wisdom in what to say.

2 Samuel 12

  1. So the LORD sent Nathan to David. When he came to David, Nathan said, “There were two men in a certain city, one rich and the other poor.
  2. The rich man had a great many flocks and herds.
  3. But the poor man had nothing except for a little lamb he had acquired. He raised it, and it grew up alongside him and his children. It used to eat his food, drink from his cup, and sleep in his arms. It was just like a daughter to him.
  4. “When a traveler arrived at the rich man’s home, he did not want to use one of his own sheep or cattle to feed the traveler who had come to visit him. Instead, he took the poor man’s lamb and cooked it for the man who had come to visit him.”
  5. Then David became very angry at this man. He said to Nathan, “As surely as the LORD lives, the man who did this deserves to die!
  6. Because he committed this cold-hearted crime, he must pay for the lamb four times over!”
  7. Nathan said to David, “You are that man!”…
  8. Then David exclaimed to Nathan, “I have sinned against the LORD!”
    Nathan replied to David, “Yes, and the LORD has forgiven your sin. You are not going to die.”
  • I once used this technique with someone…

Lies get buried deep in our subconscious

  • Often we are not conscious of our thinking patterns
  • We can’t see it but others can
  • We can’t even see how we are justifying our behaviour
  • Sometimes the lies get put there by others
  • Often things that happen to us as young children can create defensive patterns of behaviour we are not aware of

Depths of our heart

  • The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? (Jer 17:9)
  • Who can know all his errors?
    Please do not punish me for sins I am unaware of. (Psa 19:12)
  • to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, (Eph 4:22)
  • What are these lies

The Heart and The Subconscious Mind

  • The key is to bring the subconscious mind into harmony with the consciousness mind. We do this by taking every thought captive.
  • Here are some examples of a deceptive heart:
  • I cannot trust anyone.
  • I will never be good enough.
  • I am unloved.
  • Life is hard and will always be
La Vonne Earl

The Lies We Tell Ourselves

Denial: Lying to ourselves by refusing to acknowledge that something is true even though it is.

This is any version of “I am not, not, not like that,” even though your thoughts, feelings, and behavior suggest that you are.

Often, the closer you are to the truth, the more strongly you are going to deny it. For example:

  • “I do not have a problem with alcohol” (even though I drink every day, sometimes with breakfast).
  • “I am not jealous” (even though I secretly check my partner’s email and text messages).
  • “I am not a cheater” (even though I worry about being caught).
  • “I am not insecure about my looks” (even though I keep checking the mirror).
  • “I am over him or her (even though I wait for a phone call, look through old photos, etc…)
Lies We Tell Ourselves: The Psychology of Self-Deception by Cortney S. Warren
  • How is this problem dealt with?
    • The Book of Hebrews gives two answers:
      • Sometimes God uses his Word, activated by his Spirit
      • Sometimes he uses a loving community

Dealing with self-deception

  • For the Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. (Heb 4:12)
  • let us very carefully observe one another in order to spur them towards… good and loving behaviour (Heb 10:26)
  • Sometimes this behaviour is due to trauma or mistreatment
  • The lies we carry are sometimes from a very young age, and were originally there to protect us.

Defenses against getting hurt again

  • Don’t let yourself get your hopes up…
  • Don’t allow people to see your vulnerability (they will use it against you)
  • You have to please everyone (or they may hit you)
  • Don’t admit you were wrong (or you will get punished painfully)
  • Don’t think you have any importance (you are a nothing!)
  • Your needs count for nothing!

3. Gently poking out the lies

  • Jesus
  • Woman of Samaria

John 4:1–30

  1. A Samaritan woman came to draw water. Jesus said to her,
    “Give me a drink.”
  2. (For his disciples had gone off into the town to buy food.)
  3. The Samaritan woman said to him,
    “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a Samaritan woman?”
    (For Jews use nothing in common with with Samaritans.)
  4. Jesus answered her,
    “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that said to you, ‘Give me a drink,’
    you would have asked him, and he would have given you living [flowing] water.”
  5. The woman said to him,
    “Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep.
    Where do you get this living [flowing] water?
  6. Surely you are not greater than our ancestor Jacob,
    who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock?”
  7. Jesus said to her,
    “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again,
  8. but whoever drinks of the water that I will give them will never thirst again.
    The water that I will give them will become in them a fountain of water springing up to eternal life.”
  9. The woman said to him,
    “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.”
  10. Jesus said to her,
    “Go, call your husband, and come back here.”
  11. The woman answered him,
    “I have no husband.”
    Jesus said to her,
    “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; 18for you have had five husbands,
    and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.”
  12. The woman said to him,
    “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet.
  13. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you people say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.”
  14. Jesus said to her,
    “Believe me, Woman, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father.
  15. The woman said to him,
    “I know that Messiah is coming (the one called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us everything.”
  16. Jesus said to her,
    “I am! —the one speaking to you”
     
  17. Just then his disciples came back. They marveled that he was talking with a woman, but no one said, “What do you seek?” or, “Why are you talking with her?”
  18. So the woman left her water jar and went away into town and said to the people,
  19. “Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?”
  20. They went out of the town and were coming to him.
     

AMF


  • Showed her honour and value
  • Made her an offer —she found a reason to deflect it
  • Jesus persists, and she accepts
  • Jesus asks a very provoking question
  • She deflects
  • Jesus is even more provoking (but knows he has built up enough relationship)
  • She changes the subject
  • He brings her right back to the conversation, and that he, the Messiah, is giving her attention
  • She is transformed into a powerful evangelist to the city

Martha

Luke 10

  1. But Martha was distracted with all the preparations she had to make, so she came up to him and said,
    “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do all the work alone? Tell her to help me.”
  2. Jesus answered “of course I care! are you accusing me of not caring?”
  3. But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things,
    • He gently empathizes with her
  4. but one thing is needed. Mary has chosen the best part; it will not be taken away from her.”

John 20: Doubting Thomas

  1. Now Thomas, one of the Twelve, called the Twin, was not with them when Jesus came.
  2. So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord.” But he replied, “Unless I see in his hands the scar from the nails, and put my finger into the scar from the nails, and put my hand into his side, I will never believe it.”
  3. Eight days later, his disciples were inside again, and Thomas was with them. Although the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you.”
  4. Then he said to Thomas, “You doubted my resurrection didn’t you!”
  5. Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here, and examine my hands. Stretch your hand and put it into my side.
  • Do not be unbelieving, but believe.”
  1. Thomas replied to him, “My Lord and my God!”

John 3: Nicodemus

  1. Jesus replied,
    • “Truly, truly I tell you, unless a person is born from above,
    • they cannot see the kingdom of God.”
  2. Nicodemus replied, “How can these things be?”
  3. Jesus replied,
    Are you the teacher of Israel
    • and yet you don’t understand these things?
  4. If I have told you people about earthly things and you don’t believe,
    • how will you believe if I tell you about heavenly things?
  • challenged his self-identity
  • his lie? —I am the great teacher, you need to convince me.

A Real Conversation

A woman was worried about her forty-year-old son who had autism, who became ill, and had to live with her for several weeks until he returned to his group home.

She said, “I was so angry with him. He crossed the street without looking and was almost hit by a bus! I yelled at him, ‘I need you to be normal! I need you to be healthy!’”

“You need your autistic son to be normal?”

“Yes.”

“You need him to be not him?”

“He’s got to change.”

“A son whose autism has not changed in forty years has to change. Is that true?”

“No. I guess not.”

“We wish our anger could un-autism him, but it doesn’t, does it?”

“No, it doesn’t.”

“He keeps being autistic. You have been waiting forty years for a normal son to appear instead of the autistic son you have. I understand. Who wouldn’t? Shall we hold the funeral for the normal son you never had and never will?”

She bent over and sobbed.

The reason I reminded the mother of what she had been denying was not to cause her pain but to bring her relief, relief from an illusion that had tortured her for forty years. By facing the facts of her life with her, I showed her that she could face them too.

Interestingly, the more she faced the truth, the less she suffered from her lie.

As she let go of her unreal son, she embraced the real son she had.

quoted from: The Lies We Tell Ourselves p.7 by Jon Frederickson

AMF


Jesus’ Gentleness dealing with deep lies

  • Peter after his denial of Jesus
  • Woman caught in adultery
  • The woman who had 12 years of bleeding
  • Do you have any deeply embedded lies?
    • Would you like others to gently and lovingly poke them to the surface?
  • Err on the side of gentleness! and always love!
  • PRAY for WISDOM! (as Nathan was given wisdom)